Thank you Archeia Lady Mercy and Julie!
*** WE ARE ALL ONE
Nurture Yourself through the Healing Power of Forgiveness
Message from Archeia Lady Mercy
Beautiful Bright Hearts we
know many of you have experienced hurt caused by other people’s actions
and words. Maybe your parent criticized you, possibly a co-worker spread
invalidated gossip, or your closest friend or partner has said or done
dishonest actions that caused hurt. There are many scenarios and
examples and the pain you have endured can create wounds that hurt much
more than a cut upon your body - the anger, resentment, and for some the
feelings of vengeance can have a long lasting hold on your emotions and
feelings. They can drain your precious energy away creating fatigue and
unwellness. To remove yourself from these draining emotions and
feelings, consider the practice of forgiveness. Embrace forgiveness as a
way to heal yourself from deep within, releasing any pent up guilt,
animosity and other fear created feelings and let them go. Bright Hearts
when you embrace forgiveness as your healing medium for personal hurts
you are leading your whole self down a wonderful path of physical,
emotional and spiritual well-being. You are doing something good for
you.
We are quite aware that
forgiveness is a challenge for many because one must be ready mentally
and emotionally. Understand Bright Hearts, when you apply the practice
of forgiveness you are not condoning what has happened or what someone
has done. You are letting go of the pain that was created as a result.
You are letting go of all the bitterness, sorrow, betrayal and other
feelings that was created, you are freeing yourself from the heaviness
of those feelings and emotions. Yes, forgiveness can be hard, especially
when the person or persons who have wronged you don’t seem to deserve
your mercy, but you are doing this also for you. Remember my dears, when
you forgive the benefits are mainly for you. Forgiveness frees you; it
shows you a path where you can breathe again without the pain caused by
others or the lingering effects of a situation that has held your power
far too long.
Learning to forgive and let
go of the pain caused by others gives room for compassion, and peace to
enter your whole being. Your ability to forgive and let go can easily
direct your journey to happier and healthier relationships, a higher
feeling of spiritual well-being, less stressed are just some of the many
things you may feel as an outcome of practicing forgiveness.
We know it is very easy to
hold onto the animosity and resentment after someone has said or done
something to hurt you. As soon as you think on those words and actions,
you allow them to take root and to grow and fester inside of you. They
have the ability to push out any positive feelings and sometimes the
feeling of being overwhelmed by your own sense of injustice takes over.
Depending on how long you dwell within the negative emotions of the
situation, you may also find yourself losing valuable connectedness with
others that you do care about.
Even while in this dark
state you may feel lost and confused, but there is always a way out but
it does require commitment from you and your will to leave the heaviness
behind. The commitment that is needed is your own vow to begin the
process to bring in positive changes beginning with forgiveness. As you
embark upon the path of practicing forgiveness, give yourself time to
think about the value of forgiveness and how it is important and what
you are hoping to achieve. During this time of self-healing, reflect
back to past situations where hurt was involved, recognize the facts
that are plainly there and notice your reactions then, and how they
effected your physical health and spiritual well-being ...and see how the
past situation and the current one has effected your overall life.
When you are ready,
enthusiastically forgive this person that has caused you harm. Let go of
that heavy pain and of those negative emotions and feelings. Give
yourself the freedom from their disharmonic clutches and become no
longer the victim but the survivor: One who is filled with great
courageous, personal power and great knowledge and wisdom. You deserve
to be free, to be in control of yourself and of your life. As soon as
you consciously let go of your pain, along with the bitterness and anger
that is often associated, your life is no longer defined by the actions
and words done by others, it is no longer a reflection of the pain you
endured. Through the power and effects of forgiveness, you are
essentially rebirthing a new you. Forgiveness is like a gentle yet
strong hug that nurtures and heals you from the inside. Through
forgiveness, you learn how to live again, to smile, to laugh and to just
be you.
When you have exercised
forgiveness to the person that caused you pain and harm, this positive
action doesn’t always mean there will be reconciliations. Through the
process of forgiveness, you have learned what value means, and through
the information you gathered you also are given the opportunity to
recognize if the relationship with this person is of great value to you
or if it will continue to create harm. Forgiveness often leads to
reconciliation but not necessarily. You will have to discern, using your
intuitive powers and come to the conclusion if reconciliation is best.
Even if there is no reconciliation, forgiveness is still able to be
applied and your path of self-healing continues.
Bright Hearts, we know how
difficult it can be when you have not forgiven the one who has caused
you pain by their insensitive words or actions; just being near them
causes great tension. But when forgiveness has been exercised, these
feelings of fright and unease dissolves. The feeling of awkwardness is
no longer present because you have begun to move forward because you
have re-claimed your power, you have given yourself the respect you
deserve as well as your love and care.
We encourage you Bright
Hearts, while on the path of forgiving others, you also need to forgive
yourself. Forgive yourself for any past wrongs you may have done to
others, forgive yourself for the feelings you allowed to enter, forgive
yourself for judging yourself or being too hard on yourself. Remember
who you are, remember that mistakes do happen. They don’t happen
necessarily to stall your progress, but to help guide you to creating a
stronger you, to learn to let go of certain cycles, to let go of people
or ways that are no longer serving your best interests. When you seek
forgiveness for yourself, don’t seek with excuses-- seek specifically for
forgiveness, include your regret and your sorrow, and be authentic.
Understand dear ones you cannot force another to forgive you, they too
deserve and need to move on and they will, just as you will, in time when
they are ready. Even after you exercised forgiveness and the outcome
doesn’t bring reconciliation, it is important to make the decision to be
compassionate, kind and respectful toward others.
Your spirit Bright Hearts
requires the nourishment found within the goodness of truth and beauty
that is discovered while on the path of forgiveness. Showing mercy and
forgiveness to yourself and to others allows you to grow strong and
increases your potential and ability to allow positive changes into your
life. When you are being merciful towards others and of yourself, you
are able to forgive, you are able to comfort, help and care for others
and for yourself when needed. Remember dear ones when you act merciful
and show forgiveness you are also demonstrating unconditional love, a
kind of love that has no expectations, a love that is done for the
simple sake of loving. Don’t allow your spirit to feel poorly or as if
it’s in a poverty-like state, direct the healing energy of forgiveness
to reach your soul as well.
Give yourself the gift of mercy and forgiveness, heal from within and shine your goodness and renewed vitality wherever you go.
I AM Archeia Lady Mercy
through Julie Miller
http://lightworkers.org/channeling/186170/nurture-yourself-through-healing-power-forgiveness
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