Showing posts with label Judgment. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Judgment. Show all posts

Wednesday, September 14, 2011

ALL of You Are Beings of Light and Need To Learn To Work Together In Balance and In Harmony: See ALL Beings as Equal, Not Less Than You


"Find time to look within yourself and truly find all that is there, all your own good parts and all the not-so-good parts. You then choose what of the ‘not-so-good parts’ are changeable. You might find some you don’t want anymore. Its your choice what you choose to keep and what you are willing to work on. There is always room for improvement. You also accept others for their beliefs, what they think is right even if you do not agree. You learn to appreciate what they have to say, as each of you has a unique purpose. Learning to bite the tongue is a good start. Oh I see some of you squirming at that, as I now you are very outspoken, and your outspoken way serves a purpose at the right time and place, but doesn’t always effectively guide, support or show love."

Thank you Lady Portia and Julie for this reminder and wake-up call!

And so it is.
*** gavin

All Beings are Equal: Message from Ascended Master, Lady Portia
(emphasis added)

Dearest Children, it is I, Lady Portia, the twin flame to the beloved Saint Germain. I am also the Goddess of Justice. I am one of the Lords of Karma. I have come forth this child to speak to all of you. So many beautiful children bless this land of Earth. And I bless all of you before I begin with my love and my light through the violet flame’s energy.

I see so many dear souls trying so hard to be what others EXPECT them to be. You must dear ones learn what is best for YOU and not build expectations based on what others want of you. Balance is part of all your being and in finding your true self. The balancing of your female and male energies can be a regular challenge for some children as I have been seeing. It is not as hard as you might think. You do not become masculine, and you don’t become feminine when you balance yourself within these two energies. You simply work within the two at equal levels, and learn to maintain these energies in all you do, not just within.

So many of God’s children are learning what makes them unique, what gifts they may have (if any yet), where their path will lead, what the future may hold, so many possibilities. Many of you have come across people that have judged them, made assumptions on them, passed incorrect opinions, and many other lower-minded thoughts and harmful energy patterns. And some of you have done the judging and false assumptions, and so forth.

The ones who pass the judgements and the criticisms and the ones who have taken this form of pressure and harm ...can be looked at from different angles. Let us look at some angles one at a time. Some people I have seen, judge and criticize when they find fault among themselves and want to point this fault to everyone but themselves. It's easier to point a finger at another than accept your own responsibility for yourself. What this is dear ones, is a lesson to both people involved. Yes, a lesson. The one doing the judging, must at some point recognize this and find ways to turn that negative thought pattern around and learn not to judge others. The lesson for the one receiving the judgement is to see that this person may be having inner issues within themselves and to try and be empathetic, and merciful. And not to judge in return. But to love. When someone points you out, that is a time for you to reflect and see if they are correct. You find out you are not what was said and you reconfirm what you already know about yourself. You know yourself better than anyone. I am only giving one example of a possible lesson dear ones. Each of you will have different lessons and you will face them all as you are meant to. These lessons are to be thanked on both sides as they are your potential for further spiritual growth. Some growth areas do require further attention and will take longer. All depends on the individual and what they are able and willing to face and do at that particular time. No lesson is rushed, all lessons will be faced eventually.

Many of you are learning to think more often before you speak. A wonderful way to be. I don’t know many children who like to be assumed. Assumption is close to judgement. When one assumes about another, most of the time the assumption is incorrect. It's always better to know, rather than assume. Assume is guessing, another lower-mind energy that works with the ego. I know its really hard for many dear people to NOT judge, or to NOT assume. Some of you say, “I can’t help myself,” or “he/she really walked into that.” Dear ones, there is always choice. You can choose to not judge, you can choose to not assume, you can choose.

When a person passes judgement or assumptions on another, regardless if it’s a fellow light worker, friend, family member, partner, or someone passing by, you also create an opinion based on what you think, not necessarily what you really know. I would like to help both the dear ones who are receiving this kind of attention and the ones who are involved in causing this ...as it causes grief for the one receiving it and lowers energies on both sides. All of you are beings of light, and all people need to learn to work together in balance and in harmony.

This is no overnight task. To make changes such as these, you must be willing to open your heart and allow more love and light into you body. Learn to see all beings as equal, not less than you and that all beings have their own ideas on what is right. Guiding, supporting, and comforting from a non-biased position is the best for all. You can easily be loving without being hurtful with your words. Hurtful words, can be very harmful to a person’s spirit. How do we work on reducing judgements and assumptions? You let more love into your life and into your being. You find time to look within yourself and truly find all that is there, all your own good parts and all the not-so-good parts. You then choose what of the ‘not-so-good parts’ are changeable. You might find some you don’t want anymore. It's your choice what you choose to keep and what you are willing to work on. There is always room for improvement. You also accept others for their beliefs, what they think is right even if you do not agree. You learn to appreciate what they have to say, as each of you has a unique purpose. Learning to bite the tongue is a good start. Oh I see some of you squirming at that, as I now you are very outspoken, and your outspoken way serves a purpose at the right time and place, but doesn’t always effectively guide, support or show love.

The whole point is to find balance within all that still allows you to live through the purity of your heart, to give and receive unconditional love. The journey to becoming one with yourself and with the Light of God is filled with learning. Allow mercy to fill your spirit and show kindness that comes from your heart and share this onto others. It's in you to give, and costs nothing. What you get in return is an overflowing heart that is filled with love and it makes you shine with Divine radiance. Allowing your humble nature to come forth is a good thing children. Come on and shine with me. Let me guide you to your inner balance and show you how NOT to treat others. I love you in all that you are, as you are. Yet I know, and so does the mighty God, you are able to reach new spiritual heights, awareness, to become wiser and filled with greater knowledge as a result.

May your day, your night, and days-to-come be filled with the greatest joys no matter the size, from a smile to a butterfly to a gift. Beautiful children, as I depart, I am also sending forth a swirling feathery light embrace of my love and my light.

And so it is,
Ascended Master, Lady Portia
channeler Julie Miller


http://lightworkers.org/channeling/140836/all-beings-are-equal

Sunday, August 14, 2011

You Cannot Move to Full Consciousness While Holding Anger, Judgment, Blame or Resentment Because They're Incompatible w/Your Natural Divinity

Thank you Saul and John for these gems throughout this channeling...

When you feel the old ones enveloping you, remind yourselves they are coming to the end of their reign, and soon their influence will fade away

Forgive those who crossed you now, and forgive yourselves for any pain you may have caused others; and forgive yourselves for not forgiving sooner.

You cannot forgive until you are ready, and you will not be ready until you cease nursing the wounds to which you have been clinging as though they were your own abused children.

Ask for help, surrender into the present moment, release all judgment, and jump for joy when the burden of it is released.

To do this is to evolve spiritually, and it is an essential part of the process through which you must pass on your way to awakening. You cannot move into full consciousness while holding on to anger, judgment, blame, or resentment because those attitudes are completely incompatible with your natural state of full consciousness.

To reach the surface and awaken into divine Reality you need to release those last few weights – anger, judgment, blame, and resentment – which are still holding you down.

Much love on your continued path!
*** gavin

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The Light At The Surface Is Reaching Down To You

As the moment of humanity’s awakening approaches, many of you are feeling stressed, wiped out, exhausted, doubtful, and anxious. This is partly due to the conflicting energy frequencies that you are experiencing: the old negative and defensive ones that have been with you for eons, and the new ones of love, compassion, and acceptance. One moment it seems that you are completely enveloped by a dark cloud of the negative ones, and the next, they are swept away by the new ones. It is very unsettling and tiring for you. When you feel the old ones enveloping you, remind yourselves that they are coming to the end of their reign, and soon their influence will fade away. Intend to be embraced by the new ones and open your hearts in loving acceptance.

The other reason for your stress and anxiety is that lots of old, painful issues, to which you have been clinging and which have given you a strange sense of comfort (which is purely due to their familiarity), are coming up into your awareness to be recognized and released. They are mainly old hurts whose perpetrators you have been unable to forgive. Just remind yourselves that they, like you, have often reacted in unkind or unloving ways because of the pain they are suffering. So forgive them now, and forgive yourselves for any pain you may have caused others; and forgive yourselves for not forgiving sooner.

You cannot forgive until you are ready, and you will not be ready until you cease nursing the wounds to which you have been clinging as though they were your own abused children. You may well have been abused as children, but you are now adults capable of understanding that those who did the abusing were themselves suffering extreme torments that drove them to behave so horribly, and you are capable of understanding that you need to forgive them and send them love in order to open your own hearts to receive the abundance of love that is constantly offered to you.

You have enormous amounts of loving assistance available to you if you will call on those in the spiritual realms for help. They are aware of your pain and long to help you come to terms with it and release it, because they delight in seeing you jump for joy when the burden of it is released. If you could be aware of the great number of spiritual beings watching over you and eager to assist you at all times you would be amazed. So ask for help, surrender into the present moment, and release all judgment. When you do that, the sense of peace and well-being that you experience will truly delight you. After you have done it for the first time it will be very much easier the second and subsequent times. Then, as you start to make a habit of it, you will begin to wonder why you hung on to your seeming need to judge for so long. But of course judgment was constantly demonstrated to the vast majority of you during your formative years, and so it seemed normal, essential, and totally appropriate.

Once you release it you will feel as though a great burden has been lifted from your shoulders, as indeed it has, as you chose to lay it down and relinquish the sense of responsibility and righteousness that are its constant and inseparable companions. Now you can interact lovingly and compassionately in every situation involving others – or indeed just yourselves – and the anger you used to experience in difficult situations will decrease and then fade away. To do this is to evolve spiritually, and it is an essential part of the process through which you must pass on your way to awakening. You cannot move into full consciousness while holding on to anger, judgment, blame, or resentment because those attitudes are completely incompatible with your natural state of full consciousness.

As an analogy: life in the illusion is like living in the depths of a murky lake or ocean where you have heavy weights attached to you to keep you submerged. In order to rise to the surface, into the brilliant light of Reality, you have to detach yourselves from all those weights. It has to be a gradual process, because if you released them all at once you would rocket explosively upwards, and that would place you in a state of great shock.

For eons you have been detaching those weights and moving gradually towards the surface, but you have mainly remained unaware of what you were doing except that you were feeling lighter as you rose up from the depths. Now, not only are you feeling lighter, but the light at the surface is reaching down to you and encouraging you up towards the surface, and it is extremely alluring.

To reach the surface and awaken into divine Reality you need to release those last few weights – anger, judgment, blame, and resentment – which are still holding you down. Because you have been carrying them for so long they often feel as though they are essential parts of you, and that without them you would no longer be you. This is not the case. When you release the last of them, the brilliance that is who you truly are will be revealed in all its divine glory. Release those weights, those blocks, and awaken into the glory of your natural divine state.

With so very much love, Saul
by John Smallman


http://johnsmallman.wordpress.com/2011/08/14/the-light-at-the-surface-is-reaching-down-to-you/